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Sister Shahrazad Ali IS STILL Fighting to SAVE BLACK MEN!

February 23, 2013

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Shahrazad Ali

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Shahrazad Ali (born April 27, 1954, in Brooklyn, New York, USA) is an African-American author, responsible for books such as The Blackman’s Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman, Are You Still a Slave? and How Not to Eat Pork (Or Life without the Pig).[1][2][3][4][5][6]

Selected bibliography

How Not to Eat Pork (Or Life without the Pig), 1985 (ISBN 0933405006)

The Blackman’s Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman, 1989 (ISBN 0933405014)

The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding the Blackman, 1992 (ISBN 0933405030)

Are You Still a Slave? 1994 (ISBN 0933405049)

Day by Day, 1996 (ISBN 0933405057)

References

^ WILLIAMS, LENA (2 October 1990). “Black Woman’s Book Starts a Predictable Storm”. New York Times. Retrieved 17 March 2010.

^ MILLNER, DENENE (16 July 1996). “WAITING TO EXPERIENCE MARRIAGE BOOKS CHALLENGE BLACK WOMEN TO STOP TARRYING & START MARRYING”. Newyork Daily News. Retrieved 17 March 2010.

^ Smith, Elmer (28 October 1991). “Marriage of Civil Rights, Women’s movement is sore point”. The Pittsburgh Press. Retrieved 17 March 2010.

^ Fitten, Ronald K. (3 December 1990). “Shahrazad Ali Points Finger At Black Women — Controversial Author To Speak At Paramount Theatre Tonight”. Seattle Times. Retrieved 17 March 2010.
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The Blackman’s Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman by Shahrazad Ali (Dec 1989)

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The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding the Blackman by Shahrazad Ali (Apr 1992)

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How Not to Eat Pork, Or, Life Without the Pig by Shahrazad Ali (Jun 1985)

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Are You Still a Slave? by Shahrazad Ali (Mar 1994)

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Things Your Parents Should Have Told You by Shahrazad Ali (Sep 1998)

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How to Tell If Your Man Is Gay or Bisexual by Shahrazad Ali (Sep 2003)

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GABOUREY SIDIBE- OUR BLACK SKINNED BEAUTY DOES HAVE A BLACK BOYFRIEND!- BLACK ON- SO DON’T LIE ON HER! FROM GOSSIPONTHIS.COM

January 19, 2011

OUR BIG BLACK SKINNED BEAUTY DOES HAVE A BROTHER!

★ Boo’d Up: Gabourey Sidibe Takes Her New Boyfriend Out to a Basketball Game in New Jersey
Date: January 10th 2011

Gabourey Sidibe was spotted out with her new boyfriend (who she refers to as “Boyfriend X” in the latest issue of Harper’s Bazaar) were spotted kicking it courtside at a basketball game over the weekend in Newark, NJ. The “Precious” star and “Boyfriend X” were watching the New Jersey Nets take on the Milwaukee Bucks.

“He’s a regular guy working a regular job, and I’m scared to take him anywhere,” Gabby told Harper’s Bazaar.

Guess she’s not scared to take him out anymore!

Check out a couple more pics below!

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YEYE AKILIMALI FUNUA OLADE

January 19, 2011 at 8:54 AM

OUR BIG BLACK SKINNED BEAUTY GABOUREY SIDIBE DOES HAVE A BLACK BOYFRIEND AFTER ALL SO DON’T LIE ON HER AGAIN! BLACK ON BEAUTIFUL SISTER WHO IS BREAKING ALL THE SKINNY/WHITE/GIRL/STANDARD/OF BEAUTY GLASS CEILINGS EVERYWHERE FOR ALL OTHER BLACK SKINNED BEAUTIES! GOD IS WONDERFUL!
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YEYE AKILIMALI FUNUA OLADE

January 19, 2011 at 9:09 AM

GOT THE LINK WRONG IN THE FIRST POST-SORRY! WE AT “BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!” ARE PROUD OF OUR BLACK SKINNED BEAUTY GABOUREY SIDIBE WHO IS PAVING THE WAY FOR ALL BLACK SKINNED BEAUTIES TO BE AT THE TOP OF THE BEAUTY PYRAMID ONCE AGAIN!
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REGINA KING SAYS BLACK WOMEN SHOULD TRY WHITE/OTHER “BOYS” BECAUSE OF THE SCARCITY OF BLACK MEN-BUT SISTERS THE ONLY REAL MEN ON THE PLANET ARE BLACK MEN!-WELL WORTHWAITING/ PRAYING FOR!-AN OPEN POEM TO HER ABOUT GOD’S GIFT TO THE BLACK WOMAN-BLACK MEN!

June 6, 2010

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BLACK POETRY TO MOVE BLACK PEOPLE BACK TO GREATNES

Sunday, June 6, 2010
AN OPEN POEM TO REGINA KING-WHO SAYS BLACK WOMEN SHOULD TRY WHITE/OTHER” BOYS” SINCE BLACK MEN SEEM TO BE SCARCE!-THE ONLY REAL MEN ON THE PLANET ARE BLACK MEN-WELL WORTH PRAYING FOR!

THERE IS A BLACK MAN
FOR EVERY
“REAL” BLACK WOMAN
CAUSE GOD MADE
IT LIKE THAT!

BY YEYE AKILIMALI FUNUA OLADE

Regina King-say what?

“look for a white/other boy

In place of a seemingly/missing

From/yr/life

Real man/

BLACK man?

Sister-say what?

Ain’t no pale/looking

Lame/not/cool

Not/hip/no/rhythm

No/SOUL/no/ass

white boy

Can’t say nothing to

Me, Sister!

Black Me

Wants my

FINE/swinging/DARK

COOL/looking

HIP/SOULFUL

Bop/walking

REAL/MAN

BLACK MAN

Forever and ever!

After all

GOD MADE THE BLACK MAN

FOR THE BLACK WOMAN!

And God don’t make

Mistakes!

Sisters-PRAY for

That BLACK MAN

God’s got ‘specially

For BLACK you!

Sisters- BE THAT RESPECTFUL/

LOVING/BLACK WOMAN

And God will

Show BLACK

YOU that

BLESSED

BLACK

MAN!

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SHAHRAZAD ALI IS BACK WITH ANOTHER BOOK BOMB-CHECK IT OUT!

May 28, 2010

FROM muhammadspeaks.com

In view of the events that took place on 9-11-2001 it’s time to pull this book back out and follow the instructions in it!
Learn how to survive the Holy War as it progresses here in America
There are no special provisions for people of Color.
This book is our Plan B
We are most at risk in th inner-city and nearby suburbs.
Prepare to Do-For-Self
A Handy Reference of Suppliers- Emergency Tactics- Hidden Resources – Support Groups – Desperate Measures- Protection

The Bravest Black Woman in America
Sister Shahrazad Ali

By Sister Zakiyah Karim

Reprinted from Muhammad Speaks Vol.1, No.5 /Written in January, 1992

The proportion of Black women who will probably never (legally) marry has nearly tripled in the past 30 years.

According to a recent Census Bureau study, Black Women outnumber Black men significantly.

Homicide remains one of the leading causes of death among Black men ages 15-34.

With the majority of Black men between the ages of 17 and 40 either incarcerated, on drugs, homosexual, lovers of women who are other than their own kind, or HIV positive; the chances of a Black woman finding a husband are to say the least, bleak.

Another problem in the quest of the Black woman find a Black husband out of the remaining few Black men who have managed to avoid being killed and who have dodged the other genocidal weapons aimed at our Nation (The Black Nation), is the fact that over half of those left are either unemployed or receive such low wages that they are not financially able to support a family and women who receive government assistance frequently find their benefits cut if they get married.

Subsequently, we find Black women taking on the attitude that “You don’t have to have a man on your are to be successful.” or “You don’t have to have a man, period.”

We found out in 1990, when Sister Shahrazad Ali’s book, The Blackman’s Guide To Understanding the Black Woman, arrived in bookstores nation-wide, how ashamed Black women are for taking on such an attitude of not needing the Black man.

Black women all over the country became furious with Sister Sharazad Ali for statements made concerning Black women; such as the fact that the Black woman is “out of control” and that one of the options available to the Black man when the Black woman’s mouth becomes uncontrollably disrespectful was that he could “offer her an open-handed slap in the mouth.”

Black women and, in a few cases, Black men used this, “slap-in-the-mouth”, phrase, which appeared in the seventeenth chapter of The Blackman’s Guide…, to condemn the entire eighteen chapter book.

In 1989, according to the 1991 Almanac, 18,435 Black men were arrested for “offenses against family and children” as opposed to 37,671 white men who were arrested for the same charge.

It is obvious that Black men were not waiting for Shahrazad to tell them that hitting was an option, even though it is the worst of all choices, to deal with the Black woman and her, frequently out-of-control mouth.

Some people acted as though Sister Sharazad had invented “domestic violence”, that physical fighting between the Black man and the Black woman did not exist and that as a result of “The Blackman’s Guide…” pandamonium would break out among Black people, and Black women all over the country would be doomed to the “opened-hand” of our men.

On the contrary, Sister Sharazad pointed out, in her book, and even more clearly, on the On Tour Video Tape, that as both Black men and the Black women we find ourselves in these undesirable and savage-acting situations (the Black woman having such an out-of-control mouth and the Black man dealing with it by hitting her) because of our following the life-style of the Caucasian white man and woman, who is none other than the devil.

Although Sister Shahrazad Ali was well aware of the opposition she would face, and stated so in the Preface of The Blackman’s Guide…, she stood toe to toe with one of the greatest oppositions imaginable, her sister (The Blackwoman). For this reason she has earned the title of being “The Bravest Black Woman in America”.

Many of the women, whom I ,know personally, that initially, disliked the book, The Blackman’s Guide To Understanding The Black Woman, whether they had read the book or not, in 1990; now say, in 1992, that what Sister Sharazad said was right.

In 1991, Sister Shahrazad Ali was, al but, lynched by an angry mob, on national television, where she appeared on several different talk shows, to defend her book that was based on the fact that “The Blackwoman’s disrespect for the Blackman was a direct cause of the breakdown in the Black family”, Sister Shahrazad Ali went on Tour to speak to Black men and women face to face. She now has released THE BLACKMAN’S GUIDE ON TOUR VIDEO TAPE.

This “On Tour” Video Tape has caused Black women, who initially argued that Sister Shahrazad’s examples were inaccurate, to admit that “she is telling the Truth”.

The Blackman’s Guide ON TOUR video tape has caused the Black women, who in 1990, opposed and became angry with Sister Sharazad Ali, to look into the mirror of reality and say, “Thank you” to The Bravest Black woman in America.

As a Muslim Believer in the Teachings and Programs of Messenger Elijah Muhammad, the only negative reaction I had to Sister Sharazad Ali was that I did not like that she had used Messenger Elijah Muhammad’s Teaching without letting the public know that Messenger Elijah Muhammad was the source or foundation of her information.

I was happy to hear, in the On Tour Video tape, Sister Shahrazad Ali give praises to Allah and to see The Message To the Blackman in America, by Messenger Elijah Muhammad, which is the most powerful book ever written, on the table in front of her.

Sister Sharazad Ali explained to me that she did not reveal her source, in the beginning, because “The people have already been taught to reject Islam”. Messenger Elijah Muhammad, himself, said, “Find someway to ease a little Islam into them while you are talking, not in no way to make them angry with you but come in on them easy…” “I have slipped up on them many times in their own way and when I’d get through with them they were in my way. It was Islam I was easing in on them, but I come in under the cross, and they didn’t see the crescent, until I had broken the cross.”

Sister Shahrazad, by no means, came in on The Blackwoman easy, so as to make them not be angry with her, but nevertheless; she made more progress in the way of introducing the Black Women in America to Islam, as taught by Messenger Elijah Muhamamd than any sister that I know of.

All of our lives, we have learned how strong and good the Black woman is by nature. Although non of us are perfect, Sister Shahrazad Ali represents “some of that monumental strength (and goodness) we say we have.”

In the Name of Allah, Who came in the Person of Master Fard Muhammad and In the Name of His Last and Greatest Messenger, The Most Honorable Elijah Muhammad. I thank you for reading this article.

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THIS BLACK MAN,IBO MAN IN NIGERIA BELIEVES IN POLYGAMY!-HOW THIS IBO KING MANAGES HIS 5 WIVES SUCCESSFULLY!-FROM SUN NEWSPAPER,NIGERIA

August 17, 2009

from sunnewsonline.com

ROYAL CONFESSION
• Why I don’t support one man, one wife and how I manage my five wives
By Geoffrey Anyanwu, Awka
Wednesday, November 28, 2007

THIS STRONG BLACK IBO KING CAN HANDLE HIS 5 WIVES FAIRLY AND WELL!

THIS STRONG BLACK IBO KING CAN HANDLE HIS 5 WIVES FAIRLY AND WELL!


•Igwe Kelly
Photo: Sun News Publishing

His Royal Majesty, Igwe Dr. Nkeli Nzekwe Kelly, the Okalakwu Igboariam of Okalakwu kingdom, is a traditional ruler with a difference. This is shown in his attire, carriage and the way he rules his people with love and care.

But Igwe Kelly, who has been on the throne for 16 years, has great passion for women. In fact, he told Daily Sun that his target is to marry seven wives. Presently, he has five wives who have given him 13 children.

The traditional ruler has been a lucky man as it is not difficult for him to get his women. According to him, all he needs to do to get a new wife is to just declare his interest and the woman automatically becomes his wife.
In this encounter with Daily Sun, he spoke about his kingdom, his scholarship, the agricultural heritage of his kingdom and other services to his people.

What stands me out
The only thing I know is that nobody is an angel. But I’m trying as much as I can to do what I learnt from abroad where I lived. And that is, to be straightforward in whatever I do and to tell my people the truth. That’s one thing that perhaps makes me special. I don’t know that I am special. But I believe my people love me because I love them, too. I make sure whoever I am dealing with will understand me, where I am coming from and where I am going. You will see my front and back. That’s what makes me special, nothing more than that.

Regalia
I have all the traditional attire from the various kingdoms, I have them in my kingdom. I have other attires because this kingdom emanated from Benin. Initially, there was only one kingdom in Nigeria. That was the Benin Kingdom. If you watch me sometimes during my Ofala, you see the Ibiwe. Ibiwe means the bead-makers in Benin language. We have bead makers here, they make my wears. Because during the time that King Oba na Edo ruled up to this area, we called him Oba Nidu. I have the history in my kingdom. What my ancestors left behind, I’ve gone through them. The one written in Igbo and in English. I have gone through them and I discovered that there was a time those people extended up to here. There was a king that came into this place and wore the same attire.

So, what happened is, if you want to know my real attire, come on my Ofala day. Other attires, I can change to Emir attire, provided it is a Nigerian attire, but you may not know. Sometimes, I wear attire from the northerners, the Yorubas, the Tivs, the Ibibios, the Anambras, the Imos and so on. So, that’s what makes my dressing different. But if you look into it deeply, you will still see some Igbo cultural wears or traditional wears in those attire.

Life is what you make out of yourself; you cannot depend on your father’s wear because fashion changes all the time. If you are wearing this dress now, if I bought this dress last year for about, let’s say, N50, you may not find that type or style again this year. And if you buy it, they will take you as one who is not current with trends. So, I have brought everything to this level.

Wives and how I choose them
Actually, I have five wives and I am ready to marry more. It depends, because my target is seven. But I don’t know: Life and finance will determine. That is, my pocket will determine how many wives I will be able to accommodate in my kingdom. It is the tradition. You see, one man, one wife, I do not believe in it because there are a lot of women in the society now. Even sometimes, women claim that they own your house with you, the husband.
It is not done; it is only done in England where the man contributes money to the dowry with his wife, contributes money for the dowry, for feeding and every other thing from morning to night. But when you go to a woman’s house, organise a big party, sew uniforms for your wife’s friends, your in-laws, extended families, then tomorrow, will somebody say she owns your house with you? She did not contribute in building the house. How does she own the house? So, that’s why I have my wives with me and they are living happily with me and they are okay.
I choose my wives as a king. When I see somebody I like and I say I will marry you, she will follow me, that is the end of it. Then we do the next things. I will tell my people this is my wife. I don’t go to oracle, I don’t go anywhere. When any girl attracts me or any time I see a woman that attracts me, I will say it: I want to marry you. And from then on, my men will walk in there and I will leave that place and they will dig it out, get the business done for me and bring the lady home.

Managing five wives
The more wives you get, the better for you in your house. If you have only one wife, you will have more than 10 problems. If you have 10 wives, you have only one trouble in the house because instead of fighting you, they will fight themselves. All of them will be fighting to get you, to get your love and attention and you will stay quiet in your house and live long.
But if you marry only one, even if you go out, she will say why did you go and drink? But when they are many, you can go and drink, you can even sleep outside for one month and come back. Provided you know you are not cheating in any way. It depends on the individual, because I don’t like cheating someone. If you are straightforward, then you can marry more. They will not be able to stop you. The more you go in marriage, but watch always your pocket, as I said. You must be financially okay before you go into such marriages, because it involves a lot of money, a lot of spending. What you spend for one wife, times 10 or more, including on extended families. You must make sure you are sound before you go in for the second or third wife.

Our traditional stool
It means I am the servant of my people. I am working for my people and I am happy discharging my duties. I am happy working for them; it is not easy because they say uneasy lies the head that wears the crown. So, it is not easy for me. You must have a lot of challenges. But remember, challenges make you wise. When you have challenges from people, you get wiser, you get stronger, more powerful. But if you have no challenges, you become powerless; you behave like one of your subjects. I like challenges; I like people challenging me from left, right, everywhere. So, if I can defend and bring them down, then I am a good leader. If I cannot defend them and they bring me down, I am not a good leader.

Most memorable time on the throne
I enjoyed my 16 years on the throne from day one to today. I enjoyed every bit, every day of it, but Ofala days are always special times. My community is very good. They are very nice people, they are educated, they are quiet, they are not troublesome and they have understanding. I am happy throughout the 16 years I have been the king of this kingdom.

Changes in the kingdom
Very, very many changes. They have scholarships, they have light, they have everything. There have been a lot of changes since I became the king. Formerly, they were paying school fees. Today, they don’t pay anything, for over 10 years now. Even foreigners who are here do not pay, provided you pay your community dues or any communal contribution. You have to make it otherwise, your children will not be allowed in the schools. You must contribute; you must work with the community to grow the economy. We like people who work like my people. If you come here in the afternoon, you can’t see anybody here. They are all in the bush, rivers, looking for what to eat.
We have achieved a lot. Scholarships, agriculture, we grow food and grow more and more. We have loans from the government and from myself that make them do more work on their farms. If you go to where we farm now, you will see that we have extended the farms. We are even trying to pay for lands, lease lands from other communities in order to cultivate and do our farming business. The land is even not enough for us to farm.

Future vision for the kingdom
My future vision for my kingdom is to make them happy, make them grow economically and make their future bright. Through this scholarship scheme, I know we will get more educated people and from there, they will now spread to all the other parts of the world. What I want is to make them a big community, big town with rich and educated people. That’s my aim and target.


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